Books About the Wives of Famous Men

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What I love about historical fiction is how it can bring to life little-known events and shed light on overlooked people. We hear so much about the men throughout history but as the saying goes, “Behind every great man is a great woman.” While this may, or may not be completely true, here are several books about the wives of some of history’s famous men. 

The Aviator’s Wife by Melanie Benjamin

This is a book about the life of Charles Lindbergh’s wife. You have no doubt heard about Charles Lindbergh (the first man to fly solo across the Atlantic), but have you heard about his wife, Anne Morrow Lindbergh? Anne was the daughter of an affluent family and an aviator in her own right also. This book, told in the first person, is about Anne’s life growing up and how she came to be Mrs. Lindbergh. I found this book fascinating as I knew only a little about Charles Lindbergh and nothing about his wife; however, if you are hoping for a book that goes to great lengths to investigate the disappearance of their baby this book does not offer that. What it does offer is a glimpse into the life of a woman who was remarkable apart from the man to whom she was married. 

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The Aviator’s Wife by Melanie Benjamin

Becoming Mrs. Lewis by Patti Callahan 

I mentioned this book in my post (books I have been enjoying lately) , but this is a story of Joy Davidman Lewis. Joy was stuck in a loveless marriage with an abusive and cheating husband. They had two young boys. On a whim, she decided to write to C. S. Lewis with some spiritual questions she had. He wrote back and, being a writer and poet herself, Joy and C. S. Lewis discover they have a lot in common. C. S. Lewis invites her to visit England. As her marriage continues to deteriorate, Joy finally travels to England and her friendship with C. S. Lewis deepens. They have totally different backgrounds and lifestyles yet they find a deep friendship birthed in their mutual love of literature and philosophy. I really enjoyed this peak into C. S. Lewis’s personal life and I learned a lot! 

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Becoming Mrs Lewis by Patti Callahan

A Well Behaved Woman by Therese Anne Fowler 

In an age where money was everything and society was a game to play, Alva Smith is starting out on the bottom rung. With her mother dead and her family’s once prestigious wealth depleting quickly after the Civil War, Alva needs to hurry and land an eligible husband before it is too late. Not only does Alva manage to marry one of the richest men in America, William Kissam Vanderbilt, but she plays the games and climbs the social ladder. Seen by some as a cold and calculating woman, Alva doesn’t seem to care what people think. All she knows is that even being married into the wealthiest family in the country isn’t enough—she needs to land at the top of New York’s social elite if she really wants to secure her place in society. But at what cost?

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A Well Behaved Woman by Therese Anne Fowler

The Women of Chateau Lafayette by Stephanie Dray

If you read my post, Should You Read My Dear Hamilton If You Didn’t Love America’s First Daughter, then you know I have mixed feelings about this author. I loved one of her books and really didn’t care for one of her others—so what was I going to think about this one? Turns out I loved it! The story rotates from the points of view of three different women during the periods of the 1780s, WW I, and WW II. In 1774,  we meet Adrienne de Noailles, or Adrienne Lafayette as she is better known, who is the wife of the Marquis de Lafa. Adrienne was a kind woman of stalwart courage.  Not only would France’s history be much different without this woman but so would America’s. We then travel to 1914 where we meet Beatrice Chanler who decides to get involved in the war effort which could possibly involve turning Lafayette’s home into an orphanage; and then we meet Marthe who is presently serving as a school teacher to the ill children who reside in Lafayette’s once home, now school for ill children. How this chateau has played a part in such varied history is truly fascinating! 

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The Women of Chateau Lafayette by Stephanie Dray

An Unlikely Friendship by Ann Rinaldi

This is a story about Abraham Lincoln’s wife, Mary Todd Lincoln and the friendship that was forged between her and her dressmaker, Elizabeth Keckley. Mary’s childhood was an indulgent one, growing up among affluent in Tennessee’s high society. Elizabeth was a former slave who had learned to make a way in the world for herself with her talent as a seamstress, buying her own freedom in the process. Though Mary’s life may have been one of affluence, it was not without its struggles, struggles that culminated during the Civil War years as Mary led her life married to the man who was leading the Civil War, a war in which Mary’s entire family was on the opposing side. Add to that losing a son (her second child to not survive to adulthood) during her husband’s time in office and we can see some of the factors as to why Mary received the nickname of “That Female Hellcat”. With her husband preoccupied with the war, Mary leans heavily on her friendship with Elizabeth. 

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An Unlikely Friendship by Ann Rinaldi

I hope, if you decide to pick up any of these titles, you will enjoy them and gain a little more rounded view of history. If you do decide to pick up any of these titles, I encourage you to use the affiliate link in this post. This is a way you can tangibly support this blog—and at no extra cost to you!

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Author Spotlight – Susan Meissner

Author Spotlight – Susan Meissner

Real quick! Before I get started with the actual post, I just wanted to drop in and mention that if after reading this post you decided to purchase any of these titles I ask that you consider doing so through the affiliate links provided. Doing so will not increase the cost of the book to you, and it is a tangible way you can support and help me be able to keep bringing you these posts each week! Thanks in advance, and now- on to the good stuff!

The Shape of Mercy 

The Shape of Mercy

This was the first book I read by Ms. Meissner and it is about one of my favorite time periods—the Salem Witch trials! 

Lauren wants to make her own way in the world; she does not want to rely on her family’s wealth and connections to cushion her life. This leads Lauren to take a job from 83-year-old Abigail Boyles transcribing journal entries of one of Abigail’s ancestors—a victim of the Salem Witch—Mercy Hayworth. 

As Lauren starts to transcribe the journal entries, she finds herself enraptured with Mercy’s life. Lauren also realizes that the secrets contained in Mercy’s journal are still playing a part in Abigail’s life today. Lauren also realizes that she may, in a subtler way, be doing some of the same things that the accusers did to Mercy, to the people in her own life. How will she respond moving forward? 

Secrets of a Charmed Life

Secrets of a Charmed Life

Emily has dreams of becoming a wedding dress designer, a dream she is actively pursuing at the age of 15 when she lands a job in a local wedding dress shop. However, such dreams may have to wait as World War II is underway and Britain has come under attack with threats of bombing from Germany. Still being underage, Emily and her seven-year-old little sister, Julia, are sent to live in the country. This means Emily has to leave her job at the wedding dressmakers, which she is loath to do. 

One day Emily receives a letter from her old boss inviting her to come to London to meet her boss’s brother who is a well-known costume designer and who may be willing to tutor Emily and enormously enhance her career opportunities. Emily determines to sneak away from this house in the country in the middle of the night to make this meeting—but problems arise when Julia discovers her plans and threatens to give Emily away, unless Emily takes Julia with her. 

Having made their way back to England, Emily leaves Julia in their mother’s flat while she goes to her meeting. Part way through her meeting the blitz starts. Emily is frantic to get back to Julia but it is not easy to make way through a city being riddled with bombs. When Emily at last gets back to their flat, Julia is gone. Will they both make it through the blitz and will they ever be reunited again? 


In America we remember the shortages and rationing those on the home front were forced to practice but the Brits had it far worse. Imagine sending away your child for their safely in a time of war not knowing if you would ever see them again, not knowing who you would lose in the nightly bombings. This novel brought to my attention more of the destruction of Britain than I ever gave thought to.   

As Bright as Heaven 

As Bright As Heaven

I devoted a whole post to this book, read As Bright As Heaven here, but to give you an overview, this is about a family who moves to Philadelphia right before the Spanish Flu outbreak of 1918. The father has just taken a job working in his uncle’s mortuary. Then the influenza comes to their town. They are overwhelmed with the dead, dying and the ill people. It is hard to walk the line between caring for the ill and keeping themselves safe. The main character, young Maggie, and her mother try to do their part and go out delivering food to some of the people their town. It is on one of these excursions that Maggie finds an abandoned baby boy and falls in love; she wants him to replace the infant brother the family lost just before they moved. But this infant may not be as abandoned as Maggie first thought…. Will the past come back to haunt them? 


As well as being a compelling story, I enjoyed the unique look at the 1918 influenza as told from the point of view of the undertaker’s family. It is so easy, when we look at past events such as this, to focus on the horrific loss of life, but we sometimes forget to look at the horrific events that the living had to endure during the same time. 

Nature of Fragile Things

The Nature of Fragile Things 

The Nature of Fragile Things centers around the San Francisco Earthquake of 1906. As the book opens, the main character, Sophie, is being interrogated by the U.S. Marshall concerning the whereabouts of her husband who has been missing since the day of the earthquake. The Marshall wants to know why Sophie waited so long to go to the police about her missing husband—what kind of wife waits six weeks to report that her husband is missing? 


Sophie is an immigrant from Ireland, turned mail order bride. She answers an advertisement that a widower is in need of a wife to help him raise his young daughter. Sophie goes, excited to be a loving mother to young Cat, but things don’t seem quite right with her new husband. Sophie writes off his reticence as he is still grieving the loss of his late wife but as more and more things begin to surface Sophie finds it hard to ignore all of these things… . Moreover, Sophie is afraid that her husband’s secrets could be the undoing of her own secrets that she desperately wants to keep hidden. 

I have always enjoyed the books I have read by Susan Meissner but this one pulled me into the story exceptionally quickly and held my interest! Over the years I have read a little about the San Francisco Earthquake of 1906 but this book was a good peak into what life really looked like for the people living there in the days immediately following the quake. 

Books that I read that were outside of my comfort zone in 2021

Books that I read that were outside of my comfort zone in 2021

By now you probably know that historical fiction is my favorite genre, but every now and then I stray and pick up something from a different genre. My feeling when I do this? Well, I usually enjoy the book, but not quite as much as I enjoy my historical fiction. I think some of this has to do with the fact that, very broadly speaking, historical fiction tends to be a little cleaner of a read than your average book. I find that there tends to be more foul language and more adult content in the books I’ve picked up outside of the historical fiction genre than I typically come across in historical fiction. That being said, I still found the following titles to be gripping reads with convoluted plots that kept me guessing so if you are looking for a few more titles to add to your reading list, check out the ones I am listing below. 

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The Hundred Year House by Rebecca Makkai

I read a description of this book that said that we aren’t sure if the house was haunted or if the residents within the house were haunting it. … I did not think there was much of anything about the house being haunted but there were lots of pieces that keep me guessing, puzzling out how everything fits together until the very last page—and even then there were a few things that made me wonder. The Hundred Year House begins in 1999, right before we flip over to the new millennia; then we are transported back in time. We become acquainted with the current residents of the house. We are then transported back to the 1950s, and the people who lived there at that time and the tragedy that happens. Next we are transported to the 1920s when the house was a retreat for artists. Lastly, we visit the house at its conception in 1900 when the house’s tragic history all began.


My Lady Jane by Cynthia Hand 

This book is young adult fiction and is a retelling of Lady Jane Gray’s story—until the authors decide to take a different route than the actual history—with a bit of fantasy tossed in. I have to say fantasy is really not my thing … at all! However, I really enjoyed this book! It was written by three different authors which I think always makes for good plot twists and great humor. This book made me laugh out loud a few times! If you are looking for a twist on history with some quirky characters and a lighthearted read, you’ll enjoy this one! 

The People We Meet On Vacation by Emily Henry

Rarely do I ever read contemporary romance; I just want more going on in my book than a love story, especially because, how many love stories have you ever read in which you couldn’t guess the ending? But, the joy is in the journey. … The people we meet on vacation is a story about two friends, Poppy and Alex, who have been best friends since their freshman year of college. Every year since then they have taken a summer vacation together until one year something happens and their friendship falls apart.  Two years later Poppy wants to rekindle their friendship but they haven’t spoken in two years. She decides to contact Alex to see if Alex would go on one more vacation with her as her date to her brother’s wedding. Alex agrees but will this vacation be a dream come true or a nightmare? Will they be able to save their friendship or will things only turn out worse? 


The Maidens by Alex Michaelides

Maybe it was because I read this book at the perfect time of year (early fall when the weather is just starting to turn cool and makes you want to curl up with a cozy mystery) but I really enjoyed this murder mystery set in present day England. Marianna Andros is a group therapist with troubles of her own. She becomes even more troubled when her niece’s friend is murdered at the college where her niece (Zoe) is attending and where Marianna herself attended. She gets hooked into trying to solve the murder and is becoming increasingly convinced that one of her niece’s teachers may be to blame. Things get even worse when another one of her niece’s friends ends up dead—killed in exactly the same manner as the other. Will Marinna be able to put the pieces together before something happens to her niece or herself? 


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Favorite Books of 2021

Favorite Books of 2021

I believe I have mentioned this before but January is rarely a month where I hit the ground running.  I settle into the new year rather than jump into it. As someone who settles in and focuses on their new year’s goals little-by-little, I find myself still reflecting and thinking a lot about the past year; and, of course, these thoughts include reflections on all the books that I read last year.


Below is a list of several books that I read last year that stood out to me. These are ones that, nearing a year later, I still vividly remember and think, “Oh I loved that book!”. These are not necessarily new titles that you have never heard me discuss before—although a few of them are—but rather they are the ones that I most likely would recommend to friends and family so I am sharing them with you too! 

Early American History

The Indigo Girl by Natasha Boyd 

This book is set in 1739 and is fleshed out American history. Ms. Boyd took excerpts from the letters of the main character, Eliza Lucas, and true life events to craft this narrative. Eliza was a 16 year old girl growing up in South Carolina on a plantation. Her father was a merchant with aspirations in the West Indies; he left his young daughter in charge of not just one but all three of the family’s plantations. Having heavily mortgaged his properties in order to pursue his political aspirations, Eliza is left trying to make ends meet and to turn a profit on the plantations. To do this, she decided to try to raising indigo—something never before attempted in America. If she is successful, she saves her family. If she isn’t, the family’s future is at stake, including her having to marry, not for love, but to the highest bidder—making her a low dowry bride. 

Revolutionary War Books

The Revolutionary War is my favorite time period from American history. In late winter/early spring, my husband and I got hooked watching a Netflix series called, “Turn,” about the spies George Washington employed to help defeat the British. “Turn” was based on real people and real events. The show doesn’t strictly follow the facts, of course, but it got me curious and did wonderful things for my reading life during one of the dreariest times of the year. 


Rebel Spy by Veronica Rossi 

This book is based on the events of the revolution that Washington’s spy ring help effect. This particular narrative is based on who the mysterious “lady” agent could be that was supposed to have played an active role in the Culper spy ring. The true identity of the lady agent remains a secret—in fact there are discussions as to whether a lady agent existed at all! The events of this book are true while the story itself is a work of fiction; it is gripping fiction indeed! If you are looking for a book with all the classic elements of spying, adventure, close calls and a dash of romance, this is one you won’t regret reading! 

George Washington’s Secret Six by Brian Kilmeade and Don Yaeger

This is a fact based, fast paced account of what we know about the men in the Culper spy ring. To try and decipher what is fact and what is fiction about the Culper spy ring, I recommend reading this title as an introduction, not a conclusive study, of the spy ring. 

355: A Novel, The Women of Washington’s Spy Ring by Kit Sergeant 

This novel is closely based on the facts of three women who participated as information carriers during the Revolutionary War. I would say it is more of a portrayal of events than a story with a plot.  Imagine trying to gather information on the British and safely transfer that information of the Americans—all while having the British living in your home and watching your every move! 

My Dear Hamilton by Stephanie Dray and Laura Kamoie 

This was a slower paced book than I am apt to typically count as one of my very favorites, but I really enjoyed the book’s slower pace and ability to pull me into the events. I knew very little about the Hamiltons prior to reading this book so I found it very informative. This book also shed light on how turbulent it was starting out as a new nation—the nation almost didn’t make it. 


The Rose Code by Kate Quinn  

This book will keep you on the edge of your seat with the storylines of three women who helped crack the German enigma. Beth is brilliant, one of the best minds to work on the enigma. Mab has secrets she desperately wants to keep hidden. Osla wants to be seen as more than a silly debutante. A few years after the end of the war, the three friends who worked on the enigma have had a falling out. Beth has somehow ended up in an insane asylum and she needs her friends’ help to escape before a surgery ruins her mind forever. A note from Beth reaches Osla and Osla wants to help Beth, but Mab is bitter from something that happened during the war. Will Osla and Mab devise a plan to rescue Beth before it is too late? What did happen during the war to tear this group of friends apart? 


Our Darkest Night by Jennifer Robson 

This is a story that takes place in Italy during World War II. Nina is sent with a man, Nico, who she doesn’t know, to live under the guise of being his wife in his family’s home.

It is a rocky situation from the start—she is blamed as the reason her pseudo husband left seminary, something the entire family was immensely proud of Nico for achieving. Things start to smooth out but stress is always high as Nico’s exploits to help rescue Jewish people frequently take him away from his home … a fact that does not escape the notice of the Nazis who are stationed in their little village.

Surviving Savannah by Patti Callahan 

This is a fictionalized account of a real event, the sinking of a ship called the Pulaski that later came to be known as The Titanic of the South. Everly is a young historian who has been recruited to work on the Pulaski exhibit at the museum. Everly stumbles onto the stories of a few young women who were aboard the Pulaski and instantly becomes intrigued—what happened to these women after that fateful night? Everly falls into the research. However, digging up the past also means that she will have to dig through her own personal history and come face-to-face with working through the death of her best friend—something for which she feels terribly responsible. 

Books to Get Your 2022 Started Off Right

Books to Get Your 2022 Started Off Right

Can you believe that a new year is just about here?! Ready or not, here it comes! My goal with this post is not to give you a bunch of books about how to chase big goals in the fastest, most efficient way possible, but rather to offer books that provide you with  tools to help you create a life that you love while you are chasing them. 

Take Back Your Time by Christy Wright

I have been a fan of Christy’s for a long time. She has a fabulous podcast (The Christy Wright Show) and this, her latest book, is a continuation of all the topics she frequently covers on her podcast. Christy’s book outlines how to manage your time, how to decide what is most important to you, and how to use that as a guide in deciding what you should or should not agree to say yes to. She also discusses that just because you may have the time to agree to something, doesn’t necessarily mean that you have the energy to agree to it. 

Effortless by Greg McKeown

I was a fan of Greg’s first book, Essentialism, and his second book did not disappoint! In Effortless, Greg goes through how, even when you pare down and become an essentialist, there can still be so many energy-draining tasks that you have to do. In Effortless, he covers simple ways he has found to make these mundane but essential tasks more enjoyable. The mundane of life makes up a surprisingly large amount of our lives so let’s do what we can do make them, and in turn our lives, more enjoyable! 

168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam 

I have loved all of Laura’s books! 168 Hours is a compilation of lots and lots of research that Laura has done. She had many individuals track their time by keeping time logs and then used these time logs as the basis for this book. So often we tell ourselves that we simply don’t have time for the things we want to do in life, but what may actually be the case is that we don’t have time to do some of the things that we are actually doing, but not even aware that we are doing.  After analyzing how many different people, in many different walks of life, spend their time, Laura then goes into creative ways of how to delegate some of the things that we are spending time on that we don’t need to. Did you know you can send your laundry out to be washed, dried, and folded for you?

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer 

Are you rushing around all the time, always in a hurry? In this book, John deeply delves into how rushing all the time is not only unhealthy, it is also unchristian. What effects are all the activities, commitments, and busyness having on our lives and on the relationships with those closest to us?

Atomic Habits by James Clear

Habits are what shape our lives; we all have them. I have a bedtime routine that helps me wind down for bed—my husband does not and has always struggled with falling asleep. Over this past year he has worked on developing an end-of-evening routine and has definitely seen improvement in his overall sleep. The point is habits play a bigger part in our lives than we often realize. For discussion on all-things-habits, with a focus on how to implement habits to change your life, give this book a try! 

I hope this helps to inspire you for the new year! It’s always sad (at least for me) to see the holidays go, but we have a fresh new year stretching out before us. Let’s make the most of it—which may even mean not doing as much as we did in the past! 

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Books to Slow Down with This Season

Books to Slow Down with This Season

I always feel that we can learn something just by watching the natural world. Just as the natural world retires and withdraws for a season, so too can we benefit—from not just a day of rest, or a week of vacation, but rather an extended period of time, a season if you will, of focusing on rest and not a whole lot else. We all need a season every so often (perhaps once a year?) when we aren’t focusing on the running around, on all our projects, and the go, go, go of it all.  We would benefit greatly if we would just quiet down and be still long enough to listen to that still, small voice inside of us, and reflect on the life we are living.  Is this really our best life? Is this really the life we were designed to live? Here are several books to slow down with this season. 


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The Best Yes by Lysa TerKeurst 

The focus of this book is making sure that all the yeses that you’ve been saying are really the ones that you want to be saying. When we say yes to all things, we miss out on saying our best yes—the one God created us for. Helping others in meaningful ways, growing our intimate relationships—these are things we miss out on when we are busy saying yes to every single thing that comes our way. What I really appreciated about this book, was Lysa’s Bible-based framework for deciphering what we should say yes to. In an age where so many messages are yelling the self-care message, it is easy for self-care and creating time for yourself to be an excuse to be selfish with our time. I appreciated the biblical approach, backed by scripture verses, to help inform our decisions and make sure we are always saying our best yes. 

Chasing Slow by Erin Loechner 

In this book Erin tells her story. Starting from the beginning, she tells of when she and her new husband moved to California to start their careers, how busy their life became, and then just as they were starting to focus on slowing down, the economy tanked, sending them packing and moving in with their parents. She talks of how she started her blog Design for Mankind, and the ongoing battle with chasing slow, leaving the frenetic pace of life as behind them as possible. One of the recurring topics of the books is that Erin’s husband has a brain tumor. It is inoperable and while it hasn’t shown signs of growth as of the writing of her book, it very well could. The doctors originally told him he wouldn’t live as long as he has. The overtone of this medical condition gives weight to this book. If we only had ten years left to live, where would we be allocating most of our time? 

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry

My favorite quote of the book . . . “Jesus never hurried.” Enough said? Honestly, I don’t even remember a whole lot of other takeaways from the book besides the discussion on the fact that Jesus never hurried—anytime or anywhere. When we break it down and think of hurrying and how it portrays us to others, it is the exact opposite of how Christ wants us to act towards others. In my own life I think about how many times I’ve hurt people’s feelings or had spats with people—I’d say 95% of the time the discord brought about in my relationships with others is brought about by one of us hurrying—and usually it’s me. If you rush about a little more than you should (what is an appropriate amount to rush?), give this book a try. 

Anxious for Nothing by Max Lucado 

This is a short little read and while not specifically about slowing down, this book is a biblical approach to letting go of anxiety and worry. When we are filled with anxiety and worry it is difficult for us to slow down and rest. Mr. Lucado takes a scripture-based approach on how to invite God into our lives and help us let go of our anxieties. 

Rest 

I talked in depth about this book in my post “My Impression of Rest: A Book About Work” and again, this book isn’t specifically about slowing down—it is more about the part rest can play in our lives. I’m still getting over how short, but really focused, the work days were of some of the most influential people throughout history—we are talking about people like Edison! Long doesn’t necessarily mean a lot of meaningful work. There is a point of diminishing returns, and I believe that is something that often gets overlooked in our culture today. 


I’ve enjoyed these books to slow down with this season and I think you may enjoy them also. Thank you!