Books to Read if You Are Visiting Virginia this Summer

Books to Read if You Are Visiting Virginia this Summer

There is something magical about getting to celebrate Independence Day from the back lawn of the man who penned the Declaration of Independence. This is how I was fortunate enough to spend many an Independence Day growing up. My parents, cousins and I would travel down to Virginia to spend the days surrounding July 4th at my Aunt and Uncle’s home. 

 

Every July 4th Poplar Forest, Thomas Jefferson’s retreat home, would hold a bi 4th of July celebration! There were different artisans such as; blacksmiths, weavers, spinners, gunsmiths, and basket makers. There was a sword swallower, and a slack rope walker. You could take a paid tour of the house, or you could wander the grounds for a small admittance fee. It was a blast! 

 

Naturally though, I always enjoyed when I was able to line up some reading to coincide with these visits! If you are planning a visit to Virginia this year, or just wish to visit vicariously, here are some titles to pair with your travels! 

 

America’s First Daughter

If you go to Poplar Forest, Jefferson’s vacation home, then you will get to see where it was that Jefferson and his family fled in hot pursuit by the British During the American Revolution. America’s First Daughter is about Martha “Patsy” Jefferson Randolph, Thomas Jefferson’s Daughter. Here was a book about the revolution, a closer glimpse into Jefferson’s personal life, told through the lens of Thomas Jefferson’s eldest daughter. 

While this book starts off happily enough, readers should be aware that Martha did not lead an overly joyous life. There were happy times, but oh so many hard times too. This book accurately portrays the struggles of the day in the new nation as well as Martha’s personal struggles too. A turbulent childhood at times spent fleeing the British, gave way to a fairly happy adolescent spent abroad in Paris as a diplomat’s daughter, then giving way to a marriage colored by abuse. As a woman in the 18th and early 19th century Martha was no stranger to commonplace domestic violence, the loss of children, as well as financial struggles. This book offers a realistic peek into the life that was Martha Jefferson’s. If you are visiting either Poplar Forest, or Monticello this summer this is a must read! 

America’s First Daughter

 

Wolf By the Ears by Ann Rinaldi

Wolf by the Ears is perhaps Rinaldi’s best known work. This is a story of Harriet Hemings, one of Thomas Jefferson’s slaves, long supposed to have been one of the children between Jefferson and his slave, Sally Hemings. Harriet wrestles with the desire to know whether she is really a daughter of this man, a man who is opposed to slavery in theory, but who feels that “Slavery in America is like taking a wolf by the ears, you can neither hold it, nor safely let it go.” One thing young Harriet knows though, is that her skin is light, very light—light enough that she could pass for white. If she was offered this chance of freedom would she take it? To take it would mean a life of freedom, but it would also mean turning her back on her heritage and her culture, not to mention never seeing her family again. Could she take this leap? Should she? 

 

Wolf By the Ears by Ann Rinaldi

 

Or Give Me Death by Ann Rinaldi 

We think of Patrick Henry as a man who cried the immortal words, “Give me liberty, or give me death!” Henry wasn’t just a statesman and lawyer; he was a father with a family and a wife who was slowly losing her mind, just as our country was trying to gain its independence. Told from the eyes of his young daughter, Anne, we see what home life was like for this man, as he tried against the current of the time to care for his wife at home, while also being a public figure, championing the cause of liberty. 

Or Give Me Death by Ann Rinaldi 

 

In My Father’s House by Ann Rinaldi

If you are traveling to Virginia this summer, save time to visit Appomattox courthouse, where the south formally surrendered to the north, concluding the Civil War. For a reading companion, pick up In My Father’s House by Ann Rinaldi. Meet young Oscie Mason, the step daughter of Wilmer McLean, on whose property the Civil War started and, after moving many miles away, the War concluded- the treaty being signed in his parlor! 

 

Even if you are staying close to home this summer, I hope you might take this opportunity to check out one of these titles. Summer is a great time to take time to remember the history that built this nation.

In My Father’s House by Ann Rinaldi

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Taking Off the Training Wheels

Taking Off the Training Wheels

But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves. 

James 1:22

 

I had approximately zero interest in learning how to ride my bike growing up. I just didn’t care. I had training wheels on my little bike, and we had one of those tag along bikes that had a wheel and pedals for me, but that also attached to my dad’s bike when we went for longer family bike rides- why did I need to learn how to actually ride a bike??

 

My parents tried, but alas to no avail. I was dependent on my training wheels and I was happy with them. This lasted until I was around 7 and half years old. It was a beautiful summer day, my mom was out of town, dad was working, and I was spending the day with my grandparents. And they wanted to go for a bike ride. 

 

I told them I couldn’t because I needed training wheels and they were on my bike at home. I remember thinking that was it- end of story. There was nothing to be done, maybe we would go hiking instead. Then grandpa came inside and announced that the bikes were strapped onto the car, there was an extra helmet for me and …. We were going biking. I protested that I couldn’t bike and he told me sure I could. 

 

I don’t remember exactly how I felt, or what I thought on the ride to the bike trail; I think it was a mix of smugness, I knew I couldn’t bike- there would be no biking, and a mix of terror that he was going to sit me on the bike and expect me to bike! 

 

We got there and grandpa explained that I was going to sit on the bike and pedal and he would jog along holding the seat upright from behind, he wouldn’t let me fall. I got on and started to pedal and he encouraged me to pedal faster, so I did and after several seconds I didn’t hear him anymore. I glanced over my shoulder to see grandpa a ways back, jogging to catch back up to me. I was biking! 

 

I don’t remember if I fell that day, but if so I didn’t get hurt but I learned how to ride a bike. All it took was someone taking me outside of my comfort zone and telling me I was going to and not giving me the option to back out. It’s amazing what us humans can figure out when we are not given a recourse. It was time for me to be a big girl and take off the training wheels. 

 

In Hebrews 5 starting in verse 12 the author says that by now the recipients of this letter should be mature christians, teaching others and instead they are still mastering the basics- unwilling to move out of their comfort zones of old religious culture and into their new faith in Christ. 

 

Yet, how many of us sit in faith without maturing as we should? We are meant to be doers of the word- not just hearers. Just like I needed to step outside of my comfort zone and let go of my training wheels, so too comes the point in our lives when we need to step out in faith in roles that God is calling us to, take off our training wheels, and allow God to take us outside of our comfort zone. 

 

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What Inspires You- Finding Your Signature Decor Style Part One

What Inspires You- Finding Your Signature Decor Style Part One

Frankly I’ve been feeling a bit bored with my home…Our house projects have been focused on the outside this year, and looking around I realize that a lot of my decor has been the same for some time. Yes, I’ve changed out my vignettes, and centerpieces but overall… the same. This is not to say that over that past year I haven’t bought a new thing or two for my home; I have purchased several prints of original art… but haven’t gotten them framed and on display yet! 

As I looked around I realized that I don’t feel inspired by my home… I like my home’s decor but it’s missing something! I’ve felt like this for a while and, while some people ruminate on trying to find a solution for world peace, I have been dwelling for a while on why I feel bored and a little stilted by my home. 

I am not a minimalist (see my post Who Told You) but I do prefer a less cluttered home. I identify as a Creative and as such I also crave color, and pattern, and some bright, playful splashes in my home’s decor. I’ve always thought of myself as a little bit of a daisy. Let me explain: 

I love the pulled together refinement of a really tight color palette- and I think it’s important to have a tight color palette- however I need a pop with my refinement or else I find it too uptight for me. For my friend’s wedding she had a tight color palette of a few shades of dusty blue and purples… I love that! It was gorgeous and very elegant! For my wedding? I had a dusty sky blue for my bridesmaids dresses, and sunflowers and daisies in our bouquets. I tend a little more to the fun pops of color, with a very neutral base for my style. That is true for my home decor, as well as how I dress! 

Often when you are creating your signature style it can, and many times should, reflect who you are as a person. If you are a relaxed person you probably won’t have a very formal home. In just about all areas of my life I like a neutral, classic base, and then I add pops of color and personality from there. I’m not overly maximalist when I dress, but neither am I super sleek and sophisticated. Our homes are an extension of us and should reflect our personalities accordingly! 

For a while I had been pursuing magazines and books, wondering if I needed to change my decor at a more fundamental level, but I still Liked my home.  It’s just that I was just a little bored. I had taken time ( 3+ years!) to get the base of my home how I liked it and now it just didn’t sit right with me to change it. 

First takeaway: If you took time and thoughtfully designed your home to reflect you, you probably don’t need to change everything the instant you get bored with

I also am not one who wants to rush out and buy things, especially things that don’t enthrall me, just because I am bored. I want to love the things I am bringing into my home and I want them to have a purpose! 

This discovery made me realize that 1) I don’t need to change up the core of my home’s style, and 2) I needed to indulge my creative side a little bit more than I had been. 

So what tangible steps do I need to take to bring more personality into my home? I started noticing what things made me feel excited, inspired, or just like curling up with a good book! These things are what make my house feel like a hoe to me so I took note and decided to start incorporating more of these things into my home.  

When I look at vintage floral fabric, with pops of fun color, I smile. When I see a cool vintage item and bring it into my home, my home starts to have a little more weight, a little more of that warm, lived in feel. And when I look at some of the art I have collected over the years, I think of the fun place; a gettysburg vacation, the city’s arts festival, and lucky yard sales where I found these treasures. These are what I want more of in my life. 

The vintage things. The things that evoke that collected feel.  Timeless elements.  And the pieces that bring that inspirational/ artsy feel from some of these pieces. 

We will talk more about the importance of naming your unique style in an upcoming blog post, but until then if you are feeling less than infatuated with your home I hope you spend some time thinking about what feeling you think your home is missing; what do you want more of in your life? What do you want to feel more often in your life? And think about what things evoke these feelings for you! 

A Prayer for the Graduate and the Long Since Graduated

A Prayer for the Graduate and the Long Since Graduated

This is the day that the Lord has made; We will rejoice and be glad in it. 

Psalm 118:24 NASB

 

It is early summer, a season of new beginnings and new endings. A season of goodbyes, and a season of new opportunities. For the graduating: this is a new season, this may be your first last time that you have experienced in a big way in your life- congratulations! Enjoy. For those who have long since graduated; remember the excitement you felt as you embarked on a new venture of your own choosing, for the first time? 

 

Enjoy everything as though you were seeing it either for the first or lastime: Thus is your time on earth filled with glory. – A Tree Grows in Brooklyn. 

 

This is a new season, and whether you are graduating from high school, college, or have been graduated for so many years that you’ve lost count, I pray you gain back some of the wonder you had when you first graduated. I pray this is a season of refreshment, of new discoveries, of feeling hope and joyful ambition as you embark upon or continue in the work He has called you to do. 

 

May you have joyful ambition even if it is yet another season much like the last for you. In the mundane, monotonous everyday tasks, I pray for rest for your soul, and joy in the everyday little miracles; a sunrise, a rainbow, sunlight illuminating a field at the day’s end- little showers of grace, every one. 

 

If you are moving on from something big this year, I pray you charge towards your target filled with the naivete of one who doesn’t know how big life’s obstacles can be. I pray you are shining light in your new endeavors, I pray when you are halfway through,and feel as though you want to give up, that you remember the joy of starting this grand new thing in your life, and keep going. 

 

For those who are just happy to see sunny days and are not expecting much out of this summer season, I pray that whatever your hand finds to do, you will do it with all your heart. I pray that you remember that His mercies are new every morning. I pray He will refresh and revitalize you, and I pray that you will remember that this life was exciting once, and it can be again! He has made each of us a special job to do and that may we find fulfillment in that calling! 

 

I pray we can try to look at the world again through the eyes of the graduate, excited for what lies ahead, excited to see what life has in store, and expecting more good than bad from this life. 

 

Dear graduates, old and new,  when life knocks you down, I pray you remember the One who can help you stand back up. I pray you remember that life is made of seasons. I pray you remember that when life knocks you down, knocks you off course, or doesn’t turn out the way you wish it had, that we serve a Redeemer who can set the captive free, restore life to the dead, and make our paths straight. I pray that in the seasons when life is going so well, that you choose joy, and revel in His goodness, and live wide open to all the blessings be showered down upon you. 

 

We serve a risen Savior, one of love and peace, I pray we remember to live in His peace, this day, and all the days moving forward. Amen.

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Gettysburg Visitor’s Guide and Books pairing 

I’ve decided to sprinkle in a few posts that are a little different this summer. It’s summer so I hope you get to do some sort of travel. Living in Pennsylvania, one of our favorite places to visit year after year is Gettysburg! Gettysburg is a little historical town which had the unfortunate job of hosting the bloodiest battle of the Civil War and was the turning point of the Civil War. Since my family and I have traveled there most years, we have amassed our favorite things to do and places to go while there and, of course, I have several books I would recommend reading to get more out of your visit—and to enjoy even if you are not able to visit Gettysburg! 

The Battlefield

You can drive, you can take a bus tour, or you can hire a guide to drive you around the battlefield in your car for a personalized experience. One of our favorite ways to experience the battlefield is to bike it! There is something about being out in the open air that allows you to take in the battlefield and what it would feel like to be marching across it, that you just cannot appreciate the same way from a car. 

Reading Companion: Killer Angels by Michael Shaara

Museums

The Visitor Center

Roughly 10 years ago they redid the Visitor Center and wow—is it nice! The museum inside the Visitor Center takes you through the Civil War chronologically. While this isn’t imperative if you are trying to see as much of Gettysburg as possible (I would block at least a half day for this), it is a great refresher if you are rusty on your Civil War history. 

Also found inside the Visitor Center is the Gettysburg Diorama—a large painting going all the way around a circular room. A narrator and spotlight explain the parts of the battle depicted in the painting. Again, a great overview of the battle. 

Seminary Ridge Museum

This just recently opened but I am so glad that it did! The old seminary, located on top of a hill known as Seminary Ridge, was used as a lookout point for the battle of Gettysburg. The cupola on top of the seminary gives you a panoramic view of Gettysburg. If you decide to see the museum (which focuses mostly on the history of the seminary and the part it played in the battle of Gettysburg). I highly recommend paying the extra for the cupola tour. You will be able to see and hear about the troop movements. I had been to Gettysburg so many times, but never had as clear of an understanding regarding the actual battlefield logistics as I did after taking this tour.

Museum of Gettysburg

Located on Baltimore Street, my dad and I were poking into the little shops and stores, taking in the bullet holes stills found in the bricks of the houses in Gettysburg, when we happened upon this little museum, which looked more like a house than a museum. What a hidden gem! This museum has artifacts such as a mummy’s head, Adolf Hitler’s foot stool, Marilyn Monroe’s undergarments, an object’s from the Kennedy assassination. At this time, only donations are required to enter this museum so don’t miss it!

Reading Companion: Killing Kennedy by Bill O’Reilly and Martin Dugard

The Horse Soldier

This is a privately owned antique store, which sells antiques such as Civil War uniforms, guns and bayonets from the Civil War, as well all the other detritus from war that you might imagine. Go visit some of the other museums—then come to this one and see the price tag for all the objects you grumbled about having to pay to see—it will put things in perspective! 

Human Interest

Gettysburg Aftermath Night Walking Tour by Grave Digger Tours

If you go to Gettysburg you will see just about every shop on Baltimore Street (one of the main thoroughfares) have nightly ghost tours which you can go on to hear the ghostly history of Gettysburg. I am not a ghost tour person. But I am a huge fan of the aftermath tour! Take a tour of Gettysburg in the evening and hear about how the residents of Gettysburg coped after war left thousands of dead men and horses on their land. Many people moved away due to the stench. Learn what one widow with ten children did to save her family after all the dead left on her property ruined her well’s drinking water…. 

Reading Companion: The Last Full Measure by Ann Rinaldi 

The Jennie Wade House

As bloody as the battle of Gettysburg was, only one civilian was killed during the battle—young Jennie Wade. For a human interest angle take this tour! Though called the Jennie Wade house, this house is in fact Jennie Wade’s sister’s house, who Jennie was staying with for a few days, as her sister had just had a baby. See what life was like for those who had war come to their homes.

Reading Companion: The Slopes of War, a Novel of Gettysburg, by N. A. Perez 

Ten Pin Alley and the Tillie Pierce House

Ten Pin Alley, like a bowling alley, and the Tillie Pierce house are again another great human interest angle to explore if you are visiting Gettysburg. See how young Tillie Pierce survived as a young girl during the battle of Gettysburg. 

Reading Companion: Two Girls of Gettysburg, by Lisa Klein

Other Things to See

Evergreen Cemetery

If you come to Gettysburg, you can’t leave without making a quick stop by Evergreen Cemetery and taking a moment to stand under the arches where Abraham Lincoln gave his famous Gettysburg Address. 

Eisenhower’s Estate

Located just off of the battlefield is the Eisenhower estate where you can take a tour of this president’s home! 

Dining

There is no shortage of good places to eat in Gettysburg! While we don’t typically eat out a ton when we come to Gettysburg, a few places we really enjoy and have heard other rave about are: 

O’Rourke’s 

Pub-style food, reasonably priced and very tasty. 

Appalachian Brewing Company 

This brewery has great burgers too! 

Coffee 82

Located on main drag to where many of these shops are located, get your morning started off with a great cup of coffee with some innovative flavor options.

There is no shortage of things to see and do in Gettysburg. We haven’t seen it all! As I’m sure is evidenced by this post, I highly encourage you to add a trip to Gettysburg to your bucket list. If you cannot come now, make sure to visit at some point in the future! 

 

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Please remember that this post contains affiliate links; that means if you click on the link, I will make a small commission at no extra cost to you. It’s a way to support my blog! I will only ever share an affiliate link if I love the product and think that you just might love it too!