Fall Centerpiece and Vignette Ideas for 2023

Fall Centerpiece and Vignette Ideas for 2023

In my last home making post we covered some home making trends; but what if you are still stalled on ideas of how to create your own fall vignettes? What about if you aren’t an orange person- what about neutral decorating ideas? In this post I am sharing several decorating ideas of how you can create neutral vignettes and centerpieces. 

Color Palettes

You all know I love a good color palette and in my post Fall Decor Trends and Decorating Ideas for 2023
I shared a few sample color palettes for some of the bold colors that are on trend this year. 

Try using a color palette of:

Black, White, Cream, Gray and Beige

Cream, Light Sage Green, White, Dark Green, Light Gray

Dark Brown, Amber, Cream, Wheat, Sage

 

Things to remember when creating a vignette:

  • Bring a sense of cohesiveness
  • Vary heights
  • Vary textures
  • Use an odd number

 A sense of cohesiveness

 

fall centerpiece

Like the amber bottles in the picture above you want to make sure you have some through line or something that brings the elements together. If you have a bunch of plants, are they all in similar color or material pots? If you have picture frames, are they similar at all? Wooden or brown frames? Coordinating one or two elements from your vignette will help pull it all together. 

Use an Odd Number of Items

Generally using 3-5 items, or collection of items that read as one item,  in a vignette is a safe rule of thumb. If you are using books and then set a candle on top of them that will usually read as one item. 

Vary the Height

 

Kitchen fall vignette with teal accents

You want your vignette or centerpiece to look like a picture or landscape- you want peaks and valleys as well as flat connectors.  In this vignette; I have the teal color to act as a through line connecting the different elements. The wood of the picture frame blends with the wood of the tray. The little plant adds organic life to the vignette, and a small blue pottery tray in the front of the vignette acts as a small bridge to let the eye rest as it takes in the whole vignette. 

 

Vary the Texture

Use a variety of textures- you don’t want everything to be super smooth or very rough. You want it to be a nice variety for your eye to take in. 

Ideas

Try creating a vignette using different levels of pillar candles or candle sticks in front of a mirror or painting to create a vignette. 

Use something out of the ordinary to corral your vignette like an old suitcase or briefcase instead of a tray! 

Utilize boring spaces

 

vignette varying height

Maybe you have an end table without much going on on it. I have one really narrow end table that I can’t fit a whole lot on, but still the space is just begging to be used in some small way. I used a pillar candlestick with a pumpkin and vintage books to make a little vignette and I love it! 

Other Items to Add

Here is a list of items that always are great to include in a fall vignette: 

  • Pinecones
  • Deer antlers
  • A candle
  • Vintage books
  • Something organic (like a small plant) 
  • An old picture
  • A pumpkin or gourd
  • Dried  Botanicals

I hope this helps to get you started creating your own beautiful vignettes and centerpieces to enjoy this fall! If you don’t already, be sure to follow me on pinterest @essentiallyemmamarie for daily inspiration! 

 

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If Only We’d Ask

If Only We’d Ask

You do not have because you do not ask God.

James 4:2b NIV

 

The Story: 

 

It was my first trimester of my pregnancy and I was going to do this pregnancy right! I was going to eat a very healthy diet full of all the nutritional elements a baby needs to grow a healthy brain, muscles, and body, I would give this child every fighting chance it could get! It was a challenge, especially during the fatigue of the first trimester but I was committed. Which is exactly how I came to find myself standing inside a Little Caesars, trying to quickly grab a pizza before I could go home and crash on the couch. 

 

My turn came and I ordered my pizza and, “Breadsticks too, if you have them?” The cashier told me it would be a 15/20 minute wait for breadsticks. “Oh that’s ok then, I’ll just do the pizza please.” 

As I said those words another employee stuck his head out from the back and said, “We have the cheesy breadsticks ready. You ever tried them? They’re really good! They have our garlic butter sauce poured over them, then a bunch of cheese melted all over them.”

 

I should probably mention at this point that not only was I priding myself on a healthy diet, I was also priding myself on not being an easy sell. We have a budget. We plan our spending and if it’s not in the budget then sorry- it doesn’t happen. Given that we stick to a budget, I am not easily susceptible to impulse purchases. I have self control- or so I tell myself. My husband is in the sales industry- it’s like he wants to be sold! Someone starts talking about a really great offer and he starts thinking about it- especially if they are using their sales skills really well. Not me, nope. Try someone else! 

 

All of this is precisely why as the words describing the cheesy, goey, garlic smeared breadsticks were barely out of this guy’s mouth I quickly said, “Ok sounds great- an order of cheesy breadsticks too please!” the employee chuckled and pointed to the cashier saying, “See that! That’s how you upsell!” before tossing the box of breadsticks on the counter and walking back around the corner. I laughed, I knew I had been a really easy upsell! But do you know how many people  never ask for the sale? There’s a saying in the sales industry, “You miss 100% of the sales you don’t ask for.” It’s easy whenever you are trying to make a sale to lay out everything before the prospective buyer and think that by doing so, you have asked for the sale- but you haven’t! You have to actually ask, “Ready to move forward?” 

 

The Lesson I Learned

The reason I am lecturing about basic sales techniques, when all you thought you were getting is an uplifting post while you drink your morning coffee, is because this same principle applies to our prayer life too. 

 

God wants us to bring our requests and petitions before Him. Not to just ask Him something once and then move on, but to pursue Him. In fact there are multiple different instances in the bible where because someone pleaded with God, God changed His mind. In Exodus 32 God was ready to wipe out the Israelites, but Moses pleaded with God and God spared them. 

 

What have you been wanting to happen in your life that you haven’t been asking about? In Luke 11:9, Jesus tells us , “As and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (NIV) The word for ask originally was a word that meant keep on asking, keep on asking, and it will be given to you.

 

Conclusion

 

I am not a heath, wealth, and prosperity evangelist- it doesn’t work like that. Sometimes the answer will still be no. Sometimes the answer will be silence. The bible says in James 4 the Bible says,”You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.” you have not because you ask not.  When we come before God humbly, petitioning Him with desire that He has placed on our heart it pleases Him. He wants us to ask. What desire God placed on your heart? If He gave you the desire- don’t you think He wants to give it to you? 

 

Remember that sales principle, You miss 100% of the asks you never make? Sometimes I wonder how many blessings we miss out on because of the requests we never truly make of God. 

 

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Best of; Spies, Conspiracies and Traitors

Best of; Spies, Conspiracies and Traitors

If you need an excuse to read a book about spies, traitors of the American Revolution and the American Civil War, consider this to be it! In this post I am sharing several fiction and non fiction titles that will not only teach you about the historical events, but will also keep your interest while you read them! 

Washington’s Spies by Alexander Rose

If this title sounds familiar it is probably because it was turned into a series on Netflix. The Series has a little more embellishment than the book does, but the book is still a very good read! If you are looking for more of an in depth look into the spy ring that helped America win her independence this is the book for you! This book will make your heart race as you feel the anxiety Abraham Woodhull felt as he spied for the American’s while aiding and boarding a British regular in his own home! 

George Washington’s Secret Six

by Brian Kilmeade and Don Yaeger

This is a fast paced overview of how the first spy ring, the Culper Spy Ring, came to be and the impact it had on our budding country. The authors start by introducing each of the individuals associated with the spy ring. We hear about how the ring came into existence and the British plots that were overthrown, thanks to the knowledge gained by the spy ring. There is a great chance America would not have won the Revolution without the individuals in the spy ring. 

The First Conspiracy 

by Brad Meltzer and Josh Mensch

This is a little known passage from history, but an important one. It is the early years of the Revolutionary War, and America’s position in the war is shaky. As if things were not bad enough for the fledgling country, a plot is hatched to destroy America’s currency in a large-scale counterfeit operation.  America’s currency was already much weaker than Britain’s and an operation of this scale would destroy any chance of America gaining her independence—but can they catch all the culprits in time? 

The Traitor’s Wife

by Allison Pataki

Who was Peggy Shippen and what was she really about? We know she became a traitor’s wife but how did this vivacious young Tory become the wife of a rebel officer, and then the wife of a traitor? Was it true love? A covert mission to undermine the budding republic, or merely a quest for wealth? 

In a Traitor’s Wife, we see the early life of Ms Peggy Shippen unfold as told through the eyes of her personal maid. Clara is orphaned and destitute, with only one reference to help her provide for herself, luckily she land’s the job as personal lady’s maid The Peggy Shippen, the somewhat notorious daughter of one of Philadelphia’s most well known Tory families. What Clara learns over the course of her time serving Peggy Shippen, may be just the thing the rebels need to help them gain the upper hand in this war they are fighting– but will Clara be able to play her part when the time comes?

Time Enough for Drums

by Ann Rinaldi

So far this book still ranks as my very favorite. This is a story of 15 year old Jemmima, during the American Revolution. She is a staunch Whig, and she can’t believe that her father would employ John, a Tory, as her tutor . . . until she begins to put the pieces together that John may not be exactly what she thought and may, in fact, be a spy. . . .  Ann Rinaldi weaves together all of my favorite classic elements in this book: revolutionary war history, spies, romance, and tough decisions which makes for a very intriguing read.

355 the Women of Washington’s Spy Ring

By Kit Sergeant

This book follows 3 women who played a part in spying in the American Revolution. All 3 of the women portrayed in this book were actual people. They lived and did the things (at least to a certain extent) told in the book. While I really enjoyed this story, there were a few things I would like to mention:1) the book is called 355, yet none of the characters in this book quite fit what we know about the actual lady agent known as 355 in the Culper Spy Ring of New York. That doesn’t mean that these women didn’t do great things for the American revolution. Neither does it mean that none of them could have been agent 355. To this day, the identity of agent 355 still remains a mystery, but none of these women quite seem to fit the bill so if you are picking this book in order to learn specifically about agent 355 you may be a little disappointed. 2) The book came to a rather abrupt ending. I respect and value when an author stays as true to the real history as possible, and as real life doesn’t have neat little endings tied up in bows, neither does this story. The story in this book was good. I felt that the characters did come to life for me by sticking closely to the history that is known about these women the author did well, but I would say this is more of a portrayal of events told, well, than a story with a plot. Read it and judge for yourselves- I’d probably say this is a 4 star rating as far as the story goes, but 5 star if you are reading to learn the history!

Rebel Spy

by Veronica Rossi

I couldn’t put this book down!! This book definitely had the most compelling plot that kept me on the edge of my seat through the whole book! Soo good! While this book also discusses the event that agent 355 is supposed to have had a hand in, the rest of this story is highly fictionalized. This makes for a very engaging read, but not quite as great of a history lesson. If you are reading this to learn about the events 355 played in the revolution read it, absorb the events, but be prepared for the fact that someone like this woman likely did not exist. However, if you are just looking for very compelling and entertaining historical fiction read it and enjoy every minute of it!

 

Behind Rebel Lines

by Seymour Reit

Emma Edmonds was a real woman, who had a love of adventure, good skills with a gun, and knack for disguise and blending into her surroundings. Canadian born Emma decided to run away from the only home she had ever known and to fight for the Union- truly it had not been much of a home to Emma. She disguises herself as a man and signs up. Her disguise works- until she is wounded, but instead of being sent home, Emma is offered the position of spy. She jumps at the chance. Read this book for a true spy story that gets your heart pounding! 

The Secrets of Mary Bowser

by Lois Leveen

This is not a new book but I read it this summer and really enjoyed it! There’s nothing particularly summer-y about this book- it would make a great start for your fall reading! The Secrets of Mary Bowser is based off the true events in the life of Mary Bowser, the daughter of an enslaved father and a free mother, who was able to gain an education and a woman who helped in the underground railroad, and who acted as a spy for the Union during the civil war- in President Jefferson Davis’s own home! This book kept my attention for its entirety!

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What Picking Apples Taught Me

What Picking Apples Taught Me

Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. 

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

It was destined to be a warm day, the early morning temperature having just broken 70 degrees and the world was starting to awaken. The leaves on the trees were still wet from rain the night before, and the grass was wet with dew. The sun was just starting to break though the morning fog and everything was glistening. The air was cool against my skin, and my coffee was hot in my hand as I walked through my backyard, towards our apple trees. Usually on mornings like this I think, “Today would be a great day to be camping,” always wishing for something other than what is right in front of me. But on this day I thought, “today is a great day to pick apples early in the morning,” which is what I was doing. 

When we bought our house we were blessed by the previous owners with blueberry bushes, grapevines, and a small variety of fruit trees. However with these blessings all of  these trees, bushes and vines, came a heavy workload. The first few years it was just too much. The apples had always been very small and seemed hardly worth harvesting. 

Then the trees started getting very overgrown, and we feared losing this valuable asset if we didn’t do anything with them so we went out a few years ago and did some pruning, more or less guessing if we had taken enough, too little, or too much. The following year we had a baby and fruit trees were the last thing on my mind. 

This summer I hadn’t given much thought to the fruit trees either when my mother pointed out an abundance of apples hanging from the branches. She was right (yes as usual Mom) there were so many apples! The pruning we had done a couple years before had laid a foundation for some healthy growth producing big, luscious apples. 

 I was picking apples and greatly enjoying my early morning picking session and seeing bag after bag grow full with ripe apples. I have always had this fantasy of someday, living on enough land that we could have a small farm if we wanted, although I’m not sure about livestock and chickens. (Check out my post Do You Have the Faith of a Chicken? to see why I’m not sure about the livestock!)  I picture myself having a garden and some fruit trees and canning food, baking pies and waiting for my sourdough bread to rise- and having enough time to do all this! 

I always picture this as a “someday” dream, because while sure, there is always a way to make these things happen, we are also content with where we are now. Still the thought floats through my mind, “Someday we will have more land, and more time and I will do all the things I’d like to do now.”

 Do you have “Someday” thoughts of your own? 

What picking apples taught me that early morning was sometimes the dreams we hold in our heart are closer to our reality than we often take time to realize. Farming and growing your own produce connects you to the earth in a way that nothing else does. When you feel the grass brushing your feet, the damp soil beneath your feet you can’t help but be amazed that the same soil that supports your feet, also supports the tree that grew your food, and carries enough nutrients in it to nourish you, and grow babies into energetic children. 

When you take the time to pick the apples by hand you realize life is fast for everyone- it takes intentionality to slow down enough to savor it. 

As I stood there picking apple, after apple, I realized that this was it- my dream. Sure, I pictured more; more time, more trees, more land, more jars to fill with preserves, but- this was still it. I was picking apples off of my trees, taking time to enjoy the morning, and savoring the slow process that my grandmother did as a child and hope to teach to my child someday. 

So often we dream of someday and miss the beauty that is right in front of us. We forget that just as I laid the foundation by pruning my trees, so God uses circumstances to lay the foundation in our lives to ready us for future tasks He has for us to do. So often we rush through our day to day lives, not realizing that the life we want and love, is right in front of us. 

 

 

 

The Golden Hour

The Golden Hour

Likewise, a good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit.

Matthew 7:17

I have such mixed feelings about September… Usually I greet this month with a sense of dread. Here in PA this month starts off as hot and beautiful as the previous two months before it but… by the end of this month it will be unmistakably fall and the problem with fall is that it is short. But winter is long. Very long. So, I dread september. 

I hate to see the long summer days end. I dread the ending of summer dinners taken outside as the summer sunlight fades. The warm mornings are ending, and summer flowers are fading, and in just 3 weeks summer will officially be over and the fall stolice will begin. 

The thing is though, in all my moping about how much I hate to see summer end, I love fall! I love the colorful trees, I love how blue the sky looks by contrast, I love pulling out my fall decor. I love pumpkins, chai tea, brisk walks outside, and the smell of wood fires burning. I love fall – I rob this season of its joy but looking ahead to what is to come?

Why am I so busy worrying about the future that I forget the joy of today?

So this year I had a thought. What if instead of dreading fall; I look at it as summer’s golden hour? You know the golden hour; the hour before the sun officially sets and as it makes its descent through the sky and casts a celestial hue over everything, beautifying everything its golden rays touch. 

That’s how I want to greet september. Not at the demise of summer, but as the final hooray, the month of warmth and beauty as the world slowly transforms from summer to fall- which is beautiful in its own right and also a season to be savored. 

I want to intentionally savor the season I am in. 

I want this month to serve as a reminder that every season has its golden hour, and there is much to be grateful for, whatever season we find ourselves. 

We always get the choice in this life, whether to look at our lack or our plenty, the abundance of God’s goodness, or what we wish He would have provided. We can choose to glorify Him or we can choose to be angry with Him for not making our circumstances fit the vision we had for our lives.

Matthew 7:17 reminds us that every good tree bears good fruit- what kind of fruit are we bearing when we only think of the negative of our situations and neglect to dwell on all the goodness that God has blessed us with? 

The attitudes with which we greet the world are often the only evidence to the world of who we really are. Are we being good representatives of Christ? 

Perhaps you will join me in asking God to help us to see the bright side of things- the abundance of season we are in, rather than worrying about the next season. May He help us to shine His light into the world, no matter the season.